True Love Relating - Do’s And Don’ts’
2007 © Strephon Kaplan-Williams
We have here a list of things to do and not do in having successful love relationships. This list is created by a professional relationships counselor and psychotherapist. Some of his suggestions may seem outrageous to you, but there is fun and learning in being shocked, is there not? Following the suggestions in this list as practices may change how you love and relate in life. It is your choice. Loving Laurie Audio Book is the background true story that is the basis for this list of the right way to love. Sometimes making lists is an important way of thinking through a life situation. True Love Relating is certainly a major life experience that we all need to develop in and have the right perspective on.
Here our some list items on True Love Relating. Check them out. Mark which you agree with, and which you do not agree with. Give your reasons in conversation with somebody.
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Dating With Love In Mind - A Meditation
When you are dating, Do not prey
upon each other.
Know that you each share The need for love, And that need is
sacred.
Explore, but do not invade. Look, but do not project. Act, but do
not be afraid.
Live your own self and being. You have nothing to lose But your
isolation, so relate!
What is a date, then, But jumping up and down On a springboard,
Then jumping in?
What is a date then But the playing around With needs and The
stroking of desire?
Don’t do what you think You want, do what you feel. Be
responsive and real.
Don’t waste money. Spend it wisely.
Don’t make love, Yet love the making Of Desire.
Talk but leave Little silences. And when you are Finished with each
other?
Kiss and go somewhere. Or say goodbye.
Because goodbye Is forever, and You are looking for The right
one.
The right one? Is it you! Or, isn’t it?
Couple Separation Crises - Do’s And Don’ts’
2007 © Strephon Kaplan-Williams
Sometimes it happens to us that we are being divorced or want a divorce. In response to this reality, Strephon Kaplan-Williams gives us a series of precepts as guidance in processing a separation situation. Having a realistic perspective on love separations can make all the difference in how we further love in life. This article is good for ourselves and for friends we know going through a relating crisis. From studying this list you can make your own list for handling a love crisis. Or simply take this list and discuss it with a partner or friend for insights into your reality.
Dear Concerned,
As the professional that I am supposed to be, you cannot get an answer from me whether to divorce or not? Yet, you have stated your issues very clearly. So I give some observations, which I offer in general from experience in working with myself and others, and many couples.
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Let’s get one thing straight to start with. Everyone has a right to their own sexual expression. It is their right in life to express themselves how they see fit within the limits of what others who have power over them set according to the values they have.
Thus when you are having regular sex and relating with someone else not your regular sexual, live-in partner at home then that is your right to do so.
However, your regular partner may try to exert power over you to stop sexually relating to someone else other than themselves. They may bring family members and mutual friends in on the scene in an effort to gain enough power over you to control you and get what they want from you, which is often to stop the affair.
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